ED is one hell of a mutha to deal with and no one ever wants ED to come around. No, ED is not the annoying guy who no one wants to talk to nor the guy no one wants to come to the swinger party, he is not even a he. ED is erectile dysfunction and more than half of men in the world experience ED in their lifetime, according to some statistics. That number goes even higher when it comes to the men in the swinging lifestyle. Why?
Lifestyle activities typically involve many parts of a recipe that when combined = ED. Think about it, the majority of revilers partake of alcohol, dance and play well into the early morning hours, and many times involve trying to figure out a discombobulation of consent and desires, not only of a couple but of everyone involved in the situation.
Talk with any man who has been in the swinging lifestyle for any given amount of time, they at one point have more than likely been affected by ED during playtime. Using condoms is not something married men do often with their spouse so suddenly falling into an environment where safe play is encouraged and/or even expected in most cases, some men have trouble keeping their member hard and ready for the occasion.
The worst feeling is wanting to connect and be involved with a beautiful woman and although the desire is there, the body is not cooperating. It can lead to embarrassment, which can exasperate the situation. Partners can encourage their spouse many ways when they notice that their member is not working. Swapping to play with within your primary partner can help as the break in condom usage could provide some much needed freedom of thought and feeling. Talking with your partner in a safe space and in a safe manner are important to keep the relationship strong.
Many men use ED medicine as an “insurance policy” to make sure they work beforehand. Depending on which method you and your doctor decide works best means you might have to limit alcohol or time your meal around when you take the pill. For those who choose the shot, keeping the temperature of the mixture just right and actually shooting oneself in the shaft may be difficult but when done correctly, can be richly rewarding.
Do not think that you are too much of a man to need help. It’s normal and actually mentally helpful to be prepared and utilize these methods to keep your headspace right. You and your play partner are benefited from pleasurable lifestyle experiences and your swingosphere becomes the playground of dreams.
Activities
Staying up late
Lifestyle parties typically last into the wee hours of the morning. Times most individuals are naturally sleeping.
Drinking Alcohol
Alcohol consumption can cause interference between brain signals and your erection or it can lower testosterone levels.
Navigating Consent
New couples in the lifestyle and even seasoned veterans are always growing in their relationship and interactions. Trying to gain consent amongst a 2 couple play session means 4 people providing their feelings of what is ok and what is off limits.
Miscommunicate
Within the relationship communication must continue to take place as new experiences bring new feelings.
Talk to a Qualified Doctor about Options
Pills:
There are so many options nowadays: sildenafil and tadalafil are most common
Shots:
Bi-Mix, Tri-Mix are immediate solutions if you can brave the needle
Headspace:
Relaxation and removing stress can help most cases of ED
Stop Smoking:
It is proven that smoking can contribute toward ED
Exercise:
Because obviously, as with everything else this will help
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