The Most Dangerous Sex Position: A Risky Ride on the Wild Side

Let’s face it: sex is thrilling, passionate, and well sometimes… dangerous. While the vast majority of positions are relatively safe, there’s one that’s notorious for causing injuries and sending people to the ER.

Spoiler alert: it’s not a position you’d expect to come with a warning label.

So, what is the most dangerous sex position?

Drumroll, please… Cowgirl. Yes, that seemingly harmless and wildly popular position has a hidden risky side. Happens to be a favorite for us.

Why Is Cowgirl So Dangerous?

Cowgirl involves the woman sitting on top of the man, controlling the rhythm, angle, and depth of penetration. While it’s a favorite for many couples due to its well (obviously everything) and ability to give the woman control, its potential for injury is surprisingly high.

Here’s why:

1. Lack of Control for the Man: If the angle is slightly off or if a sudden movement occurs, there’s a higher chance of penile fractures.

2. Force + Wrong Angle = Trouble: The combination of the woman’s weight and momentum can amplify the impact if something goes wrong.

3. Limited Recovery Time: If the man feels discomfort or pain, it’s harder to stop or adjust in time since he’s not in control of the movement.

What Exactly Is a Penile Fracture?

A penile fracture occurs when the fibrous tissue surrounding the penis (the tunica albuginea) tears due to trauma.

Ouch…let’s take a deep breath here.

It’s often accompanied by a popping sound, excruciating pain, swelling, and immediate bruising. While the penis doesn’t have bones, the term “fracture” is used because the injury mimics the pain and severity of a bone break.

Cowgirl is responsible for a significant percentage of penile fracture cases reported in medical studies. Research published in medical journals has cited this position as the leading cause of such injuries, accounting for nearly 50% of penile fractures.

Other Risky Positions

Cowgirl may top the list, but it’s not alone in the danger zone. Here are a few other positions with injury potential:

1. Reverse Cowgirl: Similar to regular cowgirl, but with the added risk of the woman potentially not being able to see or feel the man’s reactions, increasing the likelihood of misalignment.

2. Standing Positions: Positions where the man supports the woman’s weight (standing doggy style or carrying her) can lead to muscle strains, back injuries, or accidental drops.

3. The Piledriver: This extreme position involves the woman lying on her back with her legs bent over her head, while the man penetrates from above. It’s tough on flexibility and can result in neck or back strain.

Why do we feel like all the dangerous positions are the ones we love?

How to Stay Safe While Having Fun

Nobody wants a trip to the ER to be part of their sexy time story. Here are some tips to reduce your risk:

1. Communicate: Both partners should communicate throughout. If something feels off, stop and adjust.

2. Start Slow: Gradually build up speed and intensity, especially in positions where control and balance are factors.

3. Mind the Angles: Keep the alignment comfortable and natural for both partners to avoid awkward angles.

4. Stay Tuned to Body Language: Pay attention to each other’s reactions, especially if one partner is in full control.

5. Warm Up: Don’t underestimate the power of stretching, especially if you’re trying adventurous positions.

Should You Avoid Cowgirl?

Not at all! Cowgirl is still a fantastic position that offers pleasure and control. The key is to approach it with care:

• Avoid rapid, forceful movements until you’ve established a comfortable rhythm.

• Keep an eye (and feel) for alignment to prevent accidental bending. Don’t forget to hold those hips.

• Be responsive to each other’s comfort levels.

Ride On

While the Cowgirl position carries a bit of risk, it doesn’t mean you need to banish it from your repertoire. With proper communication, mindfulness, and a sense of humor, you can enjoy this position without fear of a mishap. After all, the most dangerous thing about sex is often taking it too seriously, so relax, have fun, and remember that penis safety can still be sexy!